We need to stop thinking that there is a one-size fits all process, a step-by-step guide, or a magic solution that will fix it all. There is no simple fix, no easy way, no silver bullet... Don't get me wrong, I wish there was, but it will take time and it will take work!
That doesn't mean that we will give up searching for one (I mean, isn't that why the "Three Tips to a Perfect Life" or "Five Easy Ways to Lose Weight" or "Seven Steps For Success" books make it into the Best Selling spots time and time again?), it just means we've gotta be willing to give it our all.
Just know, if you are putting in the effort, continuing to grind away, YOU ARE DOING IT! You may not be there yet, and you may not be there tomorrow, but know that some day you will be there and BEYOND!
Determination builds habits and habits build character and character builds YOU!
KEEP FIGHTING THE GOOD FIGHT! KEEP GRINDING! HUSTLE HARD, ENJOY THE JOURNEY, AND NEVER EVER EVER GIVE UP! WE FREAKIN' GOT THIS!
YOU ARE WORTH IT! (And don't you dare forget that!)